|People Talk A Lot (P T A) How To Deal With Rumor Peddlers.
Rumor Peddlers – Talking is part of what we humans do. “What differentiates us from animals is the fact that we can listen to other people’s dreams, fears, joys, sorrows, desires and defeats—and they in turn can listen to ours, but people who talk too much or spread rumors about others don’t seem to get this balance.
I like to hear people talk about me negatively or positively, but the fact is that some people thinks they really know who you are and will turn out they don’t know a damn thing about you. I have seen cases where people hate me because of my policies and talk about it to others in a bitter way though it hurts sometimes but i always try to wave them out.
What i use to do is that i tried as much as possible not to take them personal , while this can be difficult to do because some rumors can be very hurtful, just remember that people spread rumors for a reason. Most people who are kind and care about others won’t spread malicious rumors to harm someone. Those who spread rumors usually do so because they feel jealousy or envy towards you, or they are upset with their current state in life and want to add some drama to it to make it more interesting.
Stay above these rumors and don’t encourage them by taking them personally and getting really upset. Some people spread rumors just to get a rise out of someone else. When rumors start to spread about you, act like nothing has happened and that you aren’t affected by these lies. This can also help show people that the rumor isn’t true, because you think it’s so ridiculous that you don’t even see a need to be upset about it.
A friend of mine in school wants me to do something for him but i feel very uncomfortable about what he asked me to do, so i declined. I was at ease to decline because what he wants me to do he can do it by his self though he was lazy, so because of this i became an enemy of his that was not the end i hear him talking behind my back even lying about what i did not do. I hurts and at the same time fun.
I know some people live life in bitterness but will backbiting or spreading untrue stories about other people make them feel better? rumors aren’t usually a sign that you have done something wrong. They usually communicate that the people spreading them are struggling with insecurities or boredom, so don’t take it personally.
Conclusively- The funniest part of this is that, those people you listen to while they talk bad and untrue things about other people are the same people that will talk about you too. So the best part has been Understand that it may take time for the rumor to fade. Unfortunately, even if you have addressed the rumor, not all rumors fade quickly or immediately. Some people will believe you or will become uninterested while others may take some sort of twisted joy in hurting your reputation and will continue to discuss the rumor or the events surrounding it. Don’t let these things bother you, but keep your head held high.
I always tell people that i don’t really give a fuck about what these kind of people say about me, because people talk a lot (PTA). So middle finger to those sort of people. LOL.
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