Etemeya Anidayi Anebira? (Ezi-Andayi)
Let me make you a promise before you start reading; if you are a guy and have always wondered why girls you really really like never seem to like you back then this would be the most important article you will ever come across this whole year. If you want to completely eliminate the “hard to get” attitude you get from Ebira women then come with me. If this article didn’t work for you, then my brother those Kuroko women are still following you from village. I no talk oh..
It’s said that Ebira Guys are not romantic but what I got from my Exes and what I get from Girlfriend is all the way round. I have dated girls of different races from Nigeria and outside the country and one thing is applicable to all of them “Eyi Oime” shakara too much for all of them.
Now, in this post, I will show you 3 ways that you can use to communicate with Ebira girls and get them to like you.
These 3 ways of talking to Ebira girls that i am about to pour on your laps always work like magic, every single time. With just these three ways of talking to girls you can get them to become addicted to you, always come around you and basically love to be around you like crazy. Turn it up just a bit, use it on your dream girl and you will have her sending you love texts like her life depends on it Go through these strategies then ask any girl around you weather they work and my guess is that they would give you a resounding yes.
Before i go into the strategies let me quickly tell you why these strategies work. Now come with me.
Here is the thing;
- Girls always get guys coming around them -every single time. Walk through a girl’s Facebook inbox and you will be marveled at the tons of unread messages in it. In real life, same thing happens – they get approached by guys all the time. An average girl gets approached by at least two guys every week or two guys everyday if she is pretty (And that is 4 guys every week) This attention gets to a girl’s head, she starts feeling like a prize and when that happens – “shakara” steps in.
- Girls are bombarded by loads and loads of boring guys every day. it can be tiring, trust me – what they do is to filter away the boring guys and focus on the more interesting ones.
If girls don’t like talking to you long in real life and on social media then it means you are not communicating with them in these three ways I’m about to reveal.
If girls always give you “k” and “lol” on social media most especially those girls in Ebira Singles group on facebook kai, it is not because they are rude – it is because you are plain boring (that is the painful truth). But here is the good news, you can change how you communicate with girls and become a more attractive guy by using this article.
3. Bedroom talk
Let’s take them one by one…
Some guys can be a big nightmare to girls. What Ebira girls hate like crazy is a guy who keeps asking tons and tons of questions when they discuss with them. Questions like: “how was your day”, “have you eaten”, “hope your day was good”, “hope you are fine” All in one chat/conversation. This is boring, it bores the hell out of girls. Ene vanayin ireyi Awu ani?
You have to be more interesting than that if you want that girl to find you interesting. You have to flirt with her using the teasing strategy.
How does this work?
Simple – teasing basically means to make fun of a girl in a playful way. Let me give you practical examples – Instead of coming to a girls Facebook Picture and commenting with “Beautiful Picture” (which is boring – every guy does it), You could flip this around and comment instead with – “Comot here joor, you are too sexxxy for my liking, i can’t date someone like you.”
To a guy, a talk like this is silly (i know) but to a girl it works like magic. (Try it right now, go on Facebook and try it out under a girl’s picture and watch her reaction).
More examples – You could call up a girl and instead of asking her “did you think of me?” (which is as boring as hell and makes her feel like you are begging to be thought of), the best way to start the conversation is to playfully say – “I know you’ve been thinking about me all day so i am here to free your mind” *smile* “how are you”.
The reason why this works on girls is that it:
- Makes you different from other guys who are boring
- Makes you appear confident.
- Makes you more attractive because by making fun of her you give her the impression that you are not trying to impress her like other guys do (and nothing is as attractive to girls as a guy who doesn’t try to impress them like a puppy)
Now note; It doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it. Someone can say the above things and it will seem like he is arrogant while another person would say the exact same thing and it would work like a magnetic magic on a girl. We Ebira guys are aggressive in nature know how to control this.
So the right way to tease a girl is to always to make fun of her with a smile. it doesn’t mean saying nasty things to her; the right way to tease is to always make it seem like you are playing around with your little sister.
This is another powerful way to communicate with girls that will make her find you interesting. But before i go into this strategy proper, let me first tell you why it works. Every single minute a girl gets attention from dozens upon dozens of guys struggling real hard just to impress her.
During a girl’s teenage years, she finds this interesting and she might even fall in love with you if you show her enough interest than other guys. But as she grows older she gets used to it and it starts to bore her. A teenage girl might fall for sweet talk but a grown girl won’t – as a matter of fact she has heard it all. Two; girls are never attracted to guys who always try to impress them – they prefer free guys who they cannot control.
If you join dozens of other guys who are saying the same sweet things and acting in the same sweet way then how do you intend to stand out?
That is where “Sarcasm” comes in…it makes you stand out, It gives a girl the impression that you are not like the next guy who will only say what she wants to hear just to please her, it shows her that you are in control, it shows her that you are DIFFERENT – and girls find that attractive.
So how do you apply sarcasm in real life?
Again i will give you real life examples – let me use Facebook again; Take for instance a girl puts up a new profile picture you could inbox her and say – “Thank God for that profile picture, no guy will look at it two times and that means there is no way they will take you from me – keep uploading those kinda ugly picture”
If she gets angry don’t apologizes (assuming she is the dull type that doesn’t understand a joke – a smart girl will understand a joke when she hears it). You can help your self with emoji they communicate a lot.
Also, for instance; if a girl says hi to you on social media you could reply with: ‘You want to snatch me from my girlfriend abi, alright, if i must cheat on her for you then i need 2 sons from you” You get the gist?; mixing a little sarcasm with a little humor is the key. It makes you appear like you have options, but when you run around trying to impress a girl like your life depends on it it gives her this impression that you don’t have much choices (that could turn a girl off big time). Girls love guys who have self worth and not ones who jump up whenever they (the girls) says jump.
3. BEDROOM TALK.
Alright, now we are here – the final strategy. I will have to carefully go through this one so we all can get it.
First, let’s look at why this strategy works.
The thing is this; if a girl sees you as just a friend then that is what you will remain – no matter what. Girls RARELY date guys they have friend zoned. This is exactly why after telling a girl who is a close friend of yours that you love her, she will either start avoiding you or she will start becoming uncomfortable around you – she would RARELY agree that she feels the same way (because she doesn’t).
If you want a girl to see you as a boyfriend material then you have to start from the onset to give her boyfriend signals, not by telling her how you feel about her (This will only make her lose interest in you), the best way to make a girl see you as someone she might date in the future is to use BEDROOM TALK on her from the very beginning. When you talk to her in this way she would
- Not categorize you as just a friend.
- She would begin to feel some level of sexual attraction to you.
when this happens then she would start seeing you as someone she can date i will explain what i mean, Stay with me Bedroom talk is the art of talking to a girl in ways that trigger her sexual buttons or her sexual imaginations. I don’t mean sex-chatting (That would be gross).
Let me give you some real life example: For instance; assuming you are having some discussion with a girl and she says something you don’t agree with, you could say something like: “see eh, if you say something like that again I will bite your lips for you” (In her head, this registers as a sexual tease and it triggers her imagination a bit – if you say it with the right voice tone it would be electric) Sure enough, if she doesn’t already like you she might not imagine much of the sexual meaning of what you’ve just said, but when you keep giving her loads and loads of bedroom talks in the right way, it will start to have effect on her.
More examples: You could hug a girl and while she is still holding you, you could say something like: “help, she is molesting me. where is my mummy” (I know, it sounds silly but it works – girls are tender creatures, tender things work on them) Also you could be walking with a girl then you can turn and go like; “hey, stop checking out my hips joor, i’m not even up to 18 and you are looking at me that way” (Try this and watch her laugh her head off, hit you and then say: “go joor”) Or you could say something like this after calling her up at night; “sleep tight, don’t dream of me – i get girls pregnant in dreams”. (This one also works just fine) You get the gist?; you mix a little teasing and then charge it up with sexual fire. Girls are very imaginative creatures; they are more affected by what they hear than what they see.
BUT NOTE – Doing this the wrong way could backfire and make you look like a pervert – So be Smart like Binoosmart.
Conclusively, these 3 ways will work for any girl of any tribe. This article was written by me way back in 2016 but I have modified to this year I am really sure it will work for you.
Yakubu Binuyaminu Adeiza
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The Ebira Concept Of Ozi-Emasu And Enebe.
Disclaimer: Please note that even though all my articles are based on facts (research), it is for educational uses only, I am not an herbalist as some people will put it, I am a very good Muslim but my line of work make me do research out of my own curiosities. Also please ignore all my grammatical errors, I will keep all my contents simple and concise in such a way that even an illiterate will be able to understand. I am Anebira not Americana, so try and keep up.
If you read the previous article I wrote about Onovave (Reincarnation), you will notice that this topic is somehow related to it. The similarities between this articles is that of Eva (the oracle of wisdom) that is involved, reason been that back in the times of our ancestors even they believe in God, they consult Eva through Oheva to solve every problem that arise in the community.
Ozi-Emasu could sound primitive but it’s real most especially in West Africa and mainly among our tribal folks (Anebira). Ozi-Emasu completes several life cycles with one mother. In some reality cases, the Ebiras, in one of their traditional ways of deterring Ezi-Emasu from death after reborn is deface such children, either by cutting the finger, ear, or a deep mark in the face or back or by burning them. To a great surprise most of this children when reborn will have the same marks exactly the way they were been defaced before they died.
It is believed that Ezi-Emasu plummet the fortune of their folks, and their greatest joy is to see their mother cry when they die, severally because the tears on their mothers face are valuable in the spirit of Ezi-Emasu. Emasu time in human life is short and their death mostly occurs immediately after birth and the time of their joy, like graduation or marriage.
Enebe and Ozi-Emasu are the kind of children according to the Ebira belief who make pledge concerning the duration of their life, and they reunite with their fellow members in the spirit life after death. Some traditions also confirmed that some Enebes must have married their mates and probably bore children over there (in the spirit world), by coming to the human world, they will find it difficult to get married or to have children of their own.
The Ebira beliefs that the Enebe and Emasu spirits always roam about during mid-noon, and night and the most places they can be found are T junctions, dumping grounds (Itutu), river sides, grave yards, jungles and inside trees (Iroko tree for example), and all these places are forbidden for pregnant women, if you are a Muslim you will notice that this align with the so called Jinn entering peoples body in such areas. The belief is that if pregnant woman should come in contact with them they could follow her home, and could eventually give birth to a child with Enebe or Emasu spirit. (This is a very big lesson to all women). Thank you for reading my article.
Yakubu Binuyaminu Adeiza (Binoosmart).
Music: Binoosmart – KEBIRA ft Ebira All Star. Download
#KEBIRA (Speak Ebira) is a song centred at some Ebira People’s in diaspora behaviour, where you meet with them and they either snob you or pretend to be non Ebira, this hurt a lot, most especially seeing parents speaking other languages to there children and neglecting there own.
I think we all should keep preaching the gospel to everyone, as people are really forgetting how to speak good Ebira Language these days, i am a victim though.
Artists In This Cypher
- Binoosmart (Yakubu Binuyaminu)
- Lil Em
- Gogo Lim
This song is a must download, update your playlist with this awesome song #Kebira download, listen, comment and share please…
EBIRA TRADITIONAL BELIEVE ABOUT ONOVAVE (REINCARNATION)
Onovave (Reincarnation) means the new life after a biological death (the dead body begins a new life somewhere else). In Ebiraland it is believed that everyone in life reincarnated some fallen souls in their respective families that is the major reason for Eva Ozi in Ebiraland that some people still do till date, we have experience a situation whereby someone got sick abroad and was later brought back home (Okene, Kogi State. Nigeria) because of this Eva Ozi and he was healed. Some believe that depending on the person reincarnated, if the person reincarnated want to be known, they will surely disturb the person that reincarnated them and must be done through Oheva (one that consult the Oracle of wisdom). My next article will be on Eva Ozi (this is against Islam and Christianity as these two religion believe that it’s an act of Satan), please stay tuned and read this article first on Onovave…..
Note: This is for Educational purposes only, before I write any article on Ebira Online Media (www.ebiraonline.com) I either follow the fact that people wants to know that topic or it’s a topic in Ebiraland that is worth knowing for nowadays youth like myself or I write based on request from my followers and fans.
Why am I writing this article now? It’s because one of my followers ask for help on Onovave if it’s true or just another story to scare little children. The person email content below;
Yusuf Ozovehe, Wrote: Hello Yakubu Binuyaminu Adeiza of Ebira Online media I really need your help regarding Reincarnation please it’s urgent.
Please I had a brother that we don’t get along at all we are like water and fire even though I love my brother so much and care about him and I am sure he feels the same way but we have never for once get along in the house I feel very uncomfortable anytime we are around each other. What really surprise me is that my mum knew about this and she thinks it’s nothing. When I asked her why she felt at peace knowing so well her sons are not getting along? She replied with, since those that reincarnated the two of you never get along till their death (my elder brother reincarnated my grandfather while I reincarnated my grandfather’s younger brother).
Believe me bro, this has got me down ever since and I don’t know what to do, please help me out, since you are in Nigeria and things like this might not be new to you over there. Thanks in Advance…
Yusuf Ozovehe, From England.
My answers will be in two forms, 1. Ebira Traditional Believe About Onovave. 2. Islamic Believe About Onovave).
EBIRA TRADITIONAL BELIEVE ABOUT ONOVAVE.
Ebira people believed traditionally that anybody that died untimely death come back to life In the same form but different location and different tribe to complete his remaining years on earth, this Onovave topic is a broad one according to my grandfather that is putting me through, he said he has heard stories of people that died in Okene and was found 10 years later at a very small village in Yoruba land with his own family (wife and children). He decided to bring them home after so much disturb from the wife that she needs to know where he is from he brought them home but later he was nowhere to be found, he pointed to me the family that it happened to in Inoziomi and he said it was a story he heard growing up, he is not sure if it’s true, lot of people have been saying it and the family has never for once denied it.
Also after Eva Ozi has be done in Ebiraland by Oheva and the person reincarnated has been known, this is when names like Inya, Inda, Mummy, Daddy came from in Ebiraland, because they believed some fallen family members have been given birth to again. This kind of children became spoilt as they will be over pampered believing they are elders. (In Yoruba land its Babatunde or Yetunde which means Father or Mother is back again).
Please Note: I’m not saying that everyone with above name gone through the process of Eva Ozi; all I am saying is that, it started from there, ok? Some people gave such name to their children just to sweet them thanks.
ISLAMIC BELIEVE IN REINCARNATION (ONOVAVE)
Islam believed that it is possible but they are not the same person, it is the work of the devil trying to lead you astray Evil spirit take the form of your dead family member to deceive you, if you believe in it you visit the Oheva which is strictly against the law of Islam. Please be careful about this…
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